One doesn’t lead to the other. We prepare for arguments. It’s a form of warfare, so we collect ammunition we can fire against the opponent. Many think that we need good arguments to have healthy marriages, but arguments do not lead to learning much of anything constructive. That’s because it’s hard to think constructive thoughts when walking in a minefield.
Arguments and Learning
Arguments and Learning
Arguments and Learning
One doesn’t lead to the other. We prepare for arguments. It’s a form of warfare, so we collect ammunition we can fire against the opponent. Many think that we need good arguments to have healthy marriages, but arguments do not lead to learning much of anything constructive. That’s because it’s hard to think constructive thoughts when walking in a minefield.