Some people see themselves as problem solvers. They love to fix, improve, reshape their worlds, and figuring things out, to quote Nacho Libre, is the best. Hopefully, those who enjoy solving problems are good at what they do.
Unfortunately, not all problems are solvable directly, quickly, or possibly even at all. Also, have you noticed? Every problem emerges out of earlier ones — and every problem will likely spawn a few babies of their own. This means, in this life, we will always have plenty of problems.
Problem solving can be looked at as a set of skills and abilities and everyone with a functioning brain will have their share of problems to solve throughout life.
Who solves problems better, men or women? (Oh, yes, I went there).
Male and female brains possibly approach problem solving a little differently. This is not to say either group is incapable of becoming effective problem solvers in their own right or that either group has the answers to all problems. (And like I said, not all problems have good answers). To achieve mastery in problem solving each one of us will have to work on our own weaknesses and blind spots which, understanding they can be tied into whichever brain, male or female, happens to reside in our particular cranium. In fact, my answer to the question who are the best problem solvers, men or women, is neither. We solve problems best when we are first able to figure out how to effectively cooperate with people different than we are. But this is not our most immediate problem.
We first must learn to develop and grow a good attitude. If this is not right then everything that follows will be warped, which will then create additional and unnecessary new problems.
So what is required to establish and maintain a healthy attitude? Please share your thoughts.
I [Jesus] have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.
Gratitude. If you develop a habit of looking for the good things in your life and the things you are thankful for, you will be less likely to always be focused on your problems.
I have the most difficulty in silencing my lips to listen long enough to actually develop an empathy for what my impatience is trying to shut out.